Instagram photo by poetryonlifeYou see, heâs the one that got away for a reason. He was never here to stay.
No matter what, he was never going to be âthe one.â If he was really meant to be in your life, he would be. As simple as that. He wouldnât be the one that got away â he would be the one that stayed. He wouldnât be the one in the past, he would be the one in the now. Whether he left you or you left him, whether the timing just was never right, or whether one of you fell for someone else, he still left. Or you still left. Whether he fought for you or whether he walked away, he still stopped fighting. Or maybe you stopped fighting. But either way, he still got away.
This doesnât mean that you canât still think about him, or that you canât love the parts of him that changed you. This doesnât mean that you need to forget about him â he became a part of who you are today. This doesnât mean that he didnât love or that you shouldnât have been together. You donât need to be torn up by regret.
But it does mean that you can release your sadness and relieve your regrets. In the moment, the situation was perfect for you. But now you are in a new moment. Now you are in a new stage. And he is no longer for you. He wasnât the one for you.
You see the one for you is still out there.
Maybe youâre with him now, or maybe youâre not. The one that is worth it is the one that stays; the one that you hold on to. The one that is worth it is the one that is worth fighting for and the one that thinks you are worth fighting for.
Let yourself remember the one that got away, let yourself think about him. But understand that you donât need to delve back into the past â you donât need to try to do it all over again. He got away for a reason. You donât need to pine for him or wait for him to come around again. He got away because he isnât your forever boy.
Wait for the one that is.
Wait for the one that stays.
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